Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Need Perspective? Read On...

I have copied and pasted the contents of an email sent from my sister who is in Zambia for the month on medical missions...

Hello dear family and friends,

It has been almost 12 days since I left for Zambia. It feels like I just arrived but that somehow I have had a lifetime of experiences since arriving. The people of Zambia have the most beautiful smiles, laughter and voices. Some member s of the choir often practice next door and the sound is so amazing. I was privileged to hear about 2 hours worth of beautiful performances over Easter weekend. The children are often terrified of me at first. Many of them have never seen a ‘ghost’ before. J After a few days they often warm up and I get the most wonderful hugs and smiles and high fives(I’m teaching them this fun new greeting). The families are so grateful for anything you can do to help their child. They clap in greeting to one another here and this custom warms my heart when I am the recipient. Little children knock at my door any time I am home, often just to smile and talk whether or not they understand my language. The people are so peaceful. Violent crimes simply do not happen where I am at. It is strangely and wonderfully refreshing as there is less crime here than in the neighborhood around KU!

On the trying side of things, the limitations of the available medical care here are staggering. I have never experienced so much loss of life that should never occur. My heart has been broken at least a hundred times already, watching mothers and fathers helpless to provide the most basic provisions for their children. I am responsible for 3 wards: general/icu pediatrics(35-50 pts), the pediatric malnutrition ward (currently only about 15 pts, but commonly up to 30-40) and the special care nursery or NICU as we call it (currently 10-15 pts). We also see anyone from the outpatient clinic that the medical officer there is uncertain about.

There has been a sudden upswing in Malaria cases since I arrived. We are routinely having at least 4 or 5 children per day who arrived seizing or in a comatose state. Some days it is many more than that. I have run more codes, performed more lumbar punctures and seen more children die since my arrival than in all of medical school and residency combined. On Easter, we lost 5 children in one day. The resources are so limited. Do to financial limitations, the hospital is woefully short of supplies, medicines and lab tests. (warning: medical lingo in this paragraph!) I cannot even obtain electrolyte levels or cultures. There are no ventilators and only 3 O2 condensers for the entire hospital. A condenser provides approx 70% oxygen and max 5 liters of pressure (not much for the non-medical). There are no monitors of any sort, it is all clinical. I have approximately 5 antibiotics including chloramphenicol which is banned in the U.S. I had to intubate a newborn on Sunday using a laryngoscope with no light and an ET tube but no stylette so I used a flashlight and prayed really hard. We do LPs with 21G needles so if the patient has increased ICP, the fluid often shoots halfway across the room (or all down your clothing) initially. We were out of IV tubing the first week so no one could receive any fluids or infusions. We have tubing now, but have to calculate how many drops per minute the fluid should drip in at and adjust it by hand. Meds don’t come in the right concentration, so we get to mix them, often while a child is coding. There is no availability to perform functional echos or cardiac surgery so we’ve had to send babies home to die. We’ve done multiple IOs, I had to do a needle decompression of a pneumothorax based on clinical findings with no CXR (ours is now broken).

We’ve had alligator attacks, snake bites, horrific auto/trailer accidents, more broken femurs(thigh) than I can count. I’ve also diagnosed liver abscesses, schistosomiasis, pericardial effusions, TB of every organ, malaria, epilepsy, HIV, rheumatic fever, osteomyelitis, etc. I currently have a 30 wk premie in an incubator made from wood and light bulbs on a CPAP created with an O2 condenser and a cup of water. We have multiple 32 weekers surviving on room air and breast-feeding from birth, several home births who bring in the baby 3 days later. In our malnutrition ward, I have one child so malnourished that he weighed 5 kg at 3 yrs of age and another who is so edematous from lack of protein that his skin has been split open all over his body. The stories could go on forever.

I am staying directly across from the front door of the hospital. Customarily, when a patient dies, the entire family comes to the bedside wailing loudly. It is the most gut-wrenching sound I have ever heard. They then accompany the body to the morgue and leave through the front of the hospital where they continue their weeping for a few minutes longer. I am awakened multiple times a night by this sound. I think the chill of it may never leave me.

Daily God reveals more and more of my own selfishness and pride. It is painful in this place to realize how small we truly are. I pray that I never stop trying to care for each child as I would my own, but I also know that my own knowledge and skill will never be enough without His grace and mercy. In the states, there are many diseases we cannot cure, but we never have to leave the bedside of a critical child without a monitor to warn us if something is going wrong. I have never had to run 3 codes simultaneously without even a nurse in each room. I have never had to step over the patients on the floor because we were out of beds. I am working as hard as I can, but I cannot be enough. God has promised that when we are at the end of ourselves, He WILL be enough and He has been faithful through every moment.

I have no doubt that He has sent me here for such a time as this. Please pray for wisdom, strength and a willingness to let God continue to mold me no matter how painful the experiences are. My ‘scripture of the day’ this morning was “He who began a good work in you will carry it on until completion on the day of Christ Jesus”. It was comforting to me to know that God is consistently working on us and also that he does not expect the work to be complete yet. He simply expects that when He reveals an area of weakness that we submit that area to Him. How humbling that with all the suffering here, he is constantly comforting me.

I promise the next email will be full of more fun and happy details. I appreciate the prayers more than you can know. Please also pray for health for all the staff here as well. My supervising doctor is quite fatigued. I broke my toe pretty nastily last week and seem to have some sort of respiratory thing going on at the moment and am losing my voice. Your prayers have obviously sustained an amazing amount of energy and pep for me, it is definitely beyond human, as everyone attests! J I love you all and look forward to sharing more of the joys and happiness of Zambia in my next email.

All my love,

Amber

The server can't handle pictures but I will keep trying!

Saturday, March 31, 2012

Praise and Prayer- Blessed be the Name of the Lord

Friends...
Here's my chance.
Praise and Thanksgiving WILL flow from my lips, EVEN when my life does not look like I want it to.
Life, this imperfect life that we live as we prepare for our real HOME -that glorious place where Satan is vanquished and Jesus is King FOREVER!-oh but this life...this life has been hard,..ok REALLY HARD lately. One thing after another...it seems to just keep coming. Luke's undiagnosable "soft tissue mass", Joel's 9 month treatment, a tree falling into our living room, seizures, rashes, fevers, pneumonia, stomach flu, sick kids, sick husbands, medical bills piling up, questions about the present, questions about jobs, questions about where to live, questions about the future, questions about purpose, dreams, visions.
But Never, NEVER a question about WHO holds the future and WHO is ever-present in the midst of the storms.
SO,...I will choose to say,...Blessed Be the Name of the Lord.

Our newest development is involving Joel. Long story short, his Doctors at Children's Mercy have reason to believe they have been treating him incorrectly. So Monday Joel will go for an abdominal CT scan with contrast, to determine which, if any of the lymph nodes look abnormal and are a good candidate for surgical biopsy.

So, I'm calling all prayer warriors...and asking you to add one more special little boy to your list. Thank you.


Monday, March 19, 2012

Zambia!

Isn't it amazing that a Great and Awesome God such as ours, takes the time to cares about even the daily physical needs of our lives? I see it personally and I see it in scripture, time and time again.

He feeds the hungry.
He heals the sick.
He gives sight to the blind.
He makes the lame to walk.
He provides freedom for the captive.
He offers salvation for the lost.


And perhaps even more amazing, yet? How about the fact that so many times, He chooses us, broken jars of clay, to do HIS amazing work? Sometimes He uses our hands to serve. Sometimes our arms to offer comfort. Sometimes our feet to take the gospel. Sometimes our smile to cheer. Sometimes our voice to offer encouragement and hope. Some He calls to GO. Some He calls to PRAY. Some He calls to SEND. Each of us can offer something unique to Him, if only we listen. How humbling. What an honor.


Friends. I want to tell you about an amazing woman, my sister, Dr. Amber Ratliff.

Long ago she gave her life to Christ and followed God's leading preparing herself to be a Doctor, in order to one day take her skills to the people who need it most. And now that opportunity has arrived. In April, God is using Amber's hands and skills to provide medical care to the "hurting" people of Zambia, meeting the people at their point of need. Imagine....one hospital...with only 200 beds....serving over 200,000 people in the area, on limited supplies.


Amber will not only be offering medical expertise, she will also be shining the Love of Jesus to every person she meets and you can be a part of that!

Of course, God may not be calling you to go to Zambia, but God has called her to be His hands and perhaps He is calling you to be His feet by SENDING her.

If you feel God laying this need on your heart, you can make a tax-deductible donation to Samaritan's Purse online in Amber's behalf. The funds will help pay the expenses of her travel and stay in Zambia while she use her medical skills to offer them HOPE.
Simply follow the link below to the Samaritans Purse Official Website:
www.samaritanspurse.org -> ways to give -> support a physician -> enter Ratliff, Amber at the bottom left -> enter amount -> click "make donation".

WE ARE THE BODY OF CHRIST. Here's your chance to share His love with the world!

"Once our eyes are opened we cannot pretend we do not know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls knows we know and holds us responsible to act." Proverbs 24:12

Note: I received a letter she wrote to some friends and family after writing this post and was blessed to read how God had laid on her heart some of the same thoughts as mine...down to the detail of the same verse. Since I could not get it to save and attach to this post, if you are interested in reading it, let me know and I would be happy to email it to you. She clearly defines the need in Zambia as well as why she feels led to go.

Monday, February 27, 2012

Passionate Blogger Advocate Lacking Tech Skills

Ok.

So I am "supposed" to be a blogger/advocate for "Lifesong for Orphans" www.lifesongfororphans.org ...one of my most absolute favorite non-for-profits! However,....turns out, I am not very tech-savvy. You see they always send me this awesome stuff to post and then I can't get it to well, post. So I am left desperate for you to see what I see and no way to show you.

So, I know it's not as eye-catching,...but I want you to see this information...so you are just going to have to trust me and follow this link...


and this one...


and watch this video (it's from a ministry in Arkansas, but the message applies in every city in every state)...

I know God "calls" us each to different things. But I challenge you to be open to the reality that He might be calling you to "something" or "someone" different than you ever imagined....


Praise the Lord! Surgery Canceled.

Dear Friends. We would love to give God praise and share our great news with you. Recently, we believe we saw God intervene on behalf of our precious Luke. Most of you know, and many were praying for the surgery he was to have on Feb. 15th. After many Dr. appointments, a CT Scan, and an MRI, the plan was to remove the mass on his forehead by surgical biopsy. However, we had been concerned about him undergoing anesthesia at such a young age (we had been advised it would be better developmentally if we could postpone until he was 2), as well as what type of scar/disfiguration the surgery itself might cause, let alone what the pathology results could entail.



On the morning of Feb. 15th we arrived at the Surgery Center at Children's Mercy by 6 am just as planned. Luke had fasted, was fully "gowned" (and looking pretty stinkin cute in a sort of sad way I might add) and went through all the pre-op procedures. BUT, when the surgeon came in to speak with us before the surgery, he determined to CANCEL THE SURGERY!

We believe this is a result of many factors -- all for which God receives the glory. We believe God gave the Dr. wisdom to really consider what would be best for Luke. We believe God gave us grace by giving us a Dr. who is extremely knowledgable yet kind enough to alleviate our concerns by thoroughly explaining his thoughts to us. We also believe that God allowed for atleast partial healing of the area of concern. Whether it was a supernatural healing, or whether it was a matter of healing over time, we give God glory. While the mass does still remain(and we continue to pray for complete healing of that), the abnormal swelling of the area that had taken place from August through December has subsided. In other words, it is NOT swelling anymore. With this in mind, the Dr. felt comfortable to cancel the surgery for atleast the time being. We will continue to monitor the area, with follow-up appointments at 3 and 6 months. If all seems well, the Dr. may do one more MRI. If there is still some concern, he may reschedule the surgery at that point (but by then Luke would have reached the 2 yr mark!). Praise the Lord!

On a side note, I wanted to share with you how I have battled with this post....Honestly for almost 2 weeks now. I knew what I wanted to write, but I also inwardly questioned if Thanksgiving and Praise would have flowed so freely from my lips if we had received different news. Lately, God is challenging me to become ever more aware of how "present" He is in my life. To live fully in the wonder of life with a personal God. To recognize His presence when my life looks like I want it to and even when it doesn't. Sometimes we are given news that makes us want to shout Praise from the rooftops. Other times the news makes us want to scream in anguish. Either way, I am praying that the Lord will help me to recognize His grace for the moment and the beauty of the pattern He is weaving in my life. May you too, be able to see His hand, ever present, in your life!

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

I want to be a Trader! Awesome Video.



And a powerful quote:
‎"Orphans are easier to ignore before you know their names. They are easier to ignore before you see their faces. It is easier to pretend they're not real before you hold them in your arms. But once you do, everything changes." David Platt

Monday, January 16, 2012

Latest Health News

An update is long overdue.
Thank you for your patience, inquiries and prayers.

Joel's medication gives him a belly ache but other than that he is doing well.

Luke's MRI results were not what we had hoped for.
The Dr. feels it is necessary for Luke to undergo surgery.
He will have an incisional biopsy and/or possibly the entire mass removed depending on what they find in surgery.

His surgery is scheduled for the morning of Feb. 15.

"Abundant life is not about having stuff. It's about having peace. Having Joy. Having God." ~ John Piper